Wednesday, July 29, 2026

Reframing problems into Opportunities


Half day course at collab 1 




Speed of change 
Definition of mindset
Power of the mind
What is reframing
Why reframe
How to reframe
Fixed vs growth mindset
How to change from fixed to growth
Reframing mindset






Tea break




Life is 10% what happens to you and 90% how you respond to it Lou Holtz
90% comes from your thinking


The diff between successful and unsuccessful people is in how they see and this influence how they behave



Stick to your frame be a victim
Shift belief
Or reframe


 

Sunday, July 26, 2026

Sunday vibes

Labubu World Cup Coca Cola Coke edition 

Gym

Chocolate macaron 

Lots of shima enaga merch 😍

Macaron from Annabelle Patisserie 



Faith Methodist church Commonwealth







From penpal for passing her the laptop 😅



 

Chanced upon this 😊


Thanks for the kind words, wow didn’t realise that it has 9 years

 

Saturday, July 25, 2026

Overdue haircut

     





Munchi pancakes fm tkh





Lunch at revamped Tangs basement food hall




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Friday, July 24, 2026

Small (Stupid) Favour ?



Received a WhatsApp msg fm penpal asking for a small(stupid) favour followed by a phone call.. while I was having lunch with Shirley and Dd in Lego room


Told me she was at the hospital. Playing vulnerable 🤦🏻‍♀️

Proximity and convenience vs pattern of asymmetrical favours 

Pattern of Asymmetrical Favors: She frequently asks you for favors, errands, or cover-ups, but rarely offers help or recognition in return.


Obligation trap- Daily peace depends on their approval 🙄
Availability illusion -Dumping of low value tasks, exploitation?

Tactical framework
Set clear boundaries
-Just say no
-keep a distance







 

Monday, July 20, 2026

Role play and Drama

Fm MT tomato chips from bkk


After our role play we went to Tampines Mall to celebrate 



 

Monday, July 13, 2026

Sunday