Received a WhatsApp msg fm penpal asking for a small(stupid) favour followed by a phone call.. while I was having lunch with Shirley and Dd in Lego room
Told me she was at the hospital. Playing vulnerable 🤦🏻♀️
Proximity and convenience vs pattern of asymmetrical favours
Pattern of Asymmetrical Favors: She frequently asks you for favors, errands, or cover-ups, but rarely offers help or recognition in return.
Obligation trap- Daily peace depends on their approval 🙄
Availability illusion -Dumping of low value tasks, exploitation?
Tactical framework
Set clear boundaries
-Just say no
-keep a distance
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